I think if it was worn valvetrain parts, it would likely be more consistent and with accompanying clatter. How's your oil pressure? It could very well be a dirty lifter. The tiny oil hole gets partially plugged, and while the engine is warm the hot, thin oil will make its way in there to pump up the lifter and lube the top end. Sometimes it may sit and be fine. Other times it may sit and run like a 5-cylinder for while. It can seem random because the problem may only show itself when that particular valve is held open when you shut it off. The cam & valvespring squeeze the oil from the lifter, and when you restart it takes time for oil pressure to pump that lifter back up. There is a check valve inside the lifter to prevent this, but apparently it doesn't work when its dirty. This could explain why revving the engine makes it go away (increased oil pressure overcomes the dirt).
Just my theory though, it can be tough to be 100% sure on something like that. You can try repeated cold compression tests, or possibly shut it down once it's doing it and then test. I had good luck fixing that exact problem on 80's Caravans back when they were still around. I had one that all the lifters pumped down so hard it wouldn't even start! The solution was an oil change and a bottle of Valve Medic. You can try a motor flush too but sometimes those solvents can accelerate oil leaks on real old gaskets.
Also if you are able to get the lifters out, they're super simple to take apart, clean, and reinstall. And you could inspect the entire valvetrain for wear/damage while you're there. Easier if you can pinpoint which one it is. If it's popping through the intake, it's probably an exhaust valve not opening. Cylinder 1 looks sus...