Right Stuff sounds like it might be the solution for the pan, great idea touse the wax paper and flat surface.
With mine I got the structural pan from TCI which has a thick, rigid, and machined flat surface, but it still did not seal. The TCI pan came with a good dense cardboard gasket, new stainless bolts and tightened up great and it still leaked. I went ahead and tried the rubber gasket and it did work better, but it still leaked. I would try the Great Stuff trick next, but it appears I now have a bigger problem.
In all the attempts to seal the transmission pan, I have left the car in the garage on the smooth concrete so I could get at it easily until I got it sealed. Today after cleaning up the drippings yet again, I got in and started it up (I had finally got the throttle cable and AT kickdown fixed). I ran the engine for about 30 seconds, shifting between Drive and Reverse a couple times, getting that satisfying bump that it was positively going into each gear and then shut it down. I looked back under the car an ATF is pouring out from the bell housing so the trans will have to come out now anyway.
Really hate automatics. Anybody know where I can get all the pieces to convert it to a manual?