I know how you feel sometimes, Brownbear.
I'm having issues and sometimes people can help, sometimes I'm on my own. It's not that we don't want to help, it's sometimes we can't. It's different being there beside you, under the hood and working thru the issues, then being online asking questions, and hoping what we're saying could be right.
I'm willing to help anyone here, if I can help. Sometimes I'm not much help because of my lack of experience with this car (with most cars, really).
As much as I hate to admit it, you might need to find someone who might be able to lend a hand.