Torque converters need to have the splines in the inside of the hub line up with the input shaft AND then have the two ears on the hub line up with the pump in the transmission. It usually means the torque converter will slide in to a stopping point, then you rotate the converter some, and as you rotate it, keep pushing in on it, and it will slide in further, so that's two separate sliding-in events to get a converter fully into a transmission. If you don't get it fully seated and try forcing the trans to the engine, you risk damaging the pump or the converter, and the trans might leak a lot. Here's to hoping that didn't happen.