I second that Gronk. I'm planning a roadtrip to make that happen once my first and foremost red SX4 is back together. It's always a pleasure to meet those who appreciate this site and our amazing Eagles.
I also agree fully that this site it the foremost place to find information. Its all there if you spend some time clicking and reading. I haven't encountered any other forum as friendly or useful.
As far as the best turn key solution, its a 4.0 long block with a Hesco MPI kit. That will cost you 2K for the long block and 2.5K for the complete ready-to-bolt together Hesco kit. If you're willing to do a little research, a competent mechanic would be willing to replace rings and bearings and install a new head, camshaft, and lifters for about 1K. There is potential to save alot of money besides capturing more performance for just a little bit of knowledge. The Hesco kit can be purchased from a mixture of new and used parts for about 1K if you're willing to spend some time doing research yourself. That brings you to about 2K total along with the cost of new clutch and other work done at the same time, versus about 5K for the off the shelf solution.
If I was to predict, I would say that you will end up buying a 4.0 long block, installing it, and then getting Gronk's 2150 kit along with an electric low pressure pump. You will then have everything running very well with the option of saving up for the Hesco kit at a later date if you really want that modernized pride. Alternatively you can bolt all your original 4.2 manifolds and accesories to the 4.0 block and drive it that way for a long time. That's the decision of most people once it comes time to pull the trigger.
You should not buy a 4.2 long block. A 4.2 short block is about 800 dollars cheaper, and a new head, camshaft, and head gasket can be bolted in place for less than that. Get a 4.0 if you're going to get a long block, even if you have to keep your old intake, Vbelt, exhaust, and such for awhile. The only thing you'll lose is a 40 dollar electric fuel pump, and you'll gain the head, camshaft, and lifters that you'll need for the MPI.
I personally expect my girlfriend and even my mother to drive my Eagles with comfort, and they are less forgiving than I am. They expect a smooth and flawless experience up to par with any modern car. The worst part is that they are also much more cynical and skeptical that my car's are even roadworthy because of their age, so it takes a clean modernized and expensive sounding drivetrain to gain their trust and affection. An Eagle has that potential for much less than the cost of a new car.