(Nest search is nuts)
So much info.
Machinist says that his book shows a 4.2 and 4.0 cam so close to each other that there'd be no difference in performance. That 4.0 cam also comes with a fuel pump lobe. I'm thinking the book he has is for a much earlier 4.0. He's got a performance book, but says he's had problems with everything he's ordered from them (offshore crap) with no effort for them to make it right.
So, for a daily driver (90%), with some trailer towing (7%) and then some unimproved road and mild offroad for the rest, which cam?